Young Achievers: Param Para

  WAVE, 2000

 

What happens when an interview stretches to almost seven hours? It probably means it was more than just an interview. And for a person who’s been on this road for quite a while, it means striking a conversation so interesting there is no need for questions. In fact it’s now become quite a difficult task, to be able to do this article justice. And in a situation like this, one can just hope and pray that the end is well met.

As you can see, this has been a learning process for me as well. It’s taken days to even start this article, let alone finish it. Not because I cannot but for a while I didn’t know how to. In life you meet a lot of people, many just fade into the oblivion and a very few make an impression that is so overpowering it shakes the very ground you walk on.

Dramatic as this may sound, but it’s with sincerity I say what I say after coming across two such strong individuals. Meet Param and Para – twins by birth. They look alike and that is probably the only similarity. Param, the artist seems a little withdrawn, at times. She easily goes back into her shell, speaks only when spoken to and usually communicates best through her paintings. Para on the other hand seems the stronger of the two, the decision maker and is able to strike a conversation with everybody. And Param and Para with Pallav Ranjan are Spiny Babbler. As we proceed Pallav’s name will be brought up quite often and why shouldn’t it? After all Pallav is the driving force. Whoever said two is a company and three a crowd?

The journey began somewhere back in September 1994. Job opportunities were minimal, students were going abroad for their further studies (or just basically to have a ‘better’ life) and it was a confusing time for those who decided to stay back but what next? It was the same for Para but it all changed after her visit to Bhaktapur during Gai Jatra. It was in the evening, when she came back, that she made a decision. And that decision was going to change three lives.

Para realized that Nepal was steeped in a rich tradition, something you won’t get anywhere else in the world. It was this time, Para suddenly got reminded of a few lines from Mohan Koirala’s poem:

"Forgetful. I passed this road in the morning,

I did not look. Forgive me.

As I climbed up stairs, I stumbled, fell face down,

and say what felt on paper. Forgive me.

These are but moments that my eyes have seen,

Though I did not wish to see them.”

She realized that people take things for granted. She was not going to make the same folly, not when she realizes it. So the next thing on Para’s agenda is to call Pallav and it was then that they officially decided to bring Spiny Babbler to life.

At the time Spiny Babbler wasn’t opened from a ‘business’ point of view but for the common interest in art and literature. And along the way the threesome would realize that they have a lot to learn. In 1994, it began on an informal note. Gradually a few assignments came their way, added with plenty of support from Pallav’s mother who helped them invest in their first computer. Spiny Babbler was growing and Para knew that she had to share it with her twin Param.

Param had just got back from the USA from a girl scouts program and was studying sociology in Tribhuvan University. Para was aware of Param’s interest in art but Param hadn’t started painting seriously then. Nevertheless Param joined the bandwagon and as of now Spiny Babbler can be considered one of the pioneer organizations in promoting art and literature in the valley. All due to the dedication of three young and dynamic individuals who believed in themselves and the potential in others.

Spiny Babbler is situated in Kupondol and as you enter the gates you’ll probably (most of the times actually) be greeted by Pallav or Para. I just realized that the few times I’ve been there it is usually hard to track down Param. But she would eventually come out and easily fit into the conversation making the guest/s feel comfortable. Too comfortable for me because that day I landed up joining them for tea, heavy snacks (for which I didn’t get to thank them) and probably would have stayed on for dinner if Pallav hadn’t reminded us that it was getting late. Not in so many words actually, he said, would you like to stay for dinner? And it struck me then that I’d lasted there longer than I’d imagined.

The place looks new now (for people who’ve visited Spiny Babbler before), they’ve renovated the place quite extensively. And to a remark by me, Spiny Babbler’s become rich, roars of laughter followed. There was a reason for me making that comment (and for them reacting the way they did) and if you’ve read Fragments, the book of poems by Pallav you’ll know what I mean. While the poet explains his poems, he says, in Suicide Notes: ‘At one point we were 1.5 million (15 lakhs) rupees in debt.’ I still get a shiver when I think of it. And while our conversation unfolded I knew some time or the other I would have put forward this one question, what about that 15 lakhs debt? But since I had the whole day I figured I had ample time to bring out that section of their past, slowly.

By now I had made myself more than comfortable and was listening intently to their story. I couldn’t help noticing a twinkle in their eyes as Param and Para, who would continuously look at each other for reassurance, told me about their work. By now Param was sharing with us how her venture into art took off in black and white. Not as interest but due to the line drawings for covers, which were usually in black and white, as it was more economical. But painting for her was spontaneous. “I didn’t decide one day that I would start painting and it would turn out beautiful.” No, that wasn’t the way she started painting. She was once playing around with paint on A4 size paper when she created her best work (that’s what Param feels) – the Dark Flowers collection. Param’s difficulty in painting colour was in turn probably due to the fact that she stuck to black and white in her early works in Spiny Babbler.

So for Param her venture into color was also accidental. “I began experimenting at first but it wasn’t satisfying. It was just paint splattered, it wasn’t art.” But Param didn’t give up and continued creating and finally she liked the outcome and that was when her first color series took form.

And as you must have realized, by now our conversation was shifting towards Param’s paintings and how she feels about creating something of her own opposed to commission work i.e. creating artwork according to clients’ needs. Param, initially, had a problem doing commission work, because she didn’t feel confident as it involves clients’ sentiments and Param was hesitant. The lack of confidence, Param reveals, probably also creeped in due to inexperience in that field and the lack of courage to take a shot at it. And it was only after accepting a project for Greta Rana that Param gained the much needed confidence about commission work. This confidence came out of compulsion too, because when the project arrived, an in house artist for Spiny Babbler was taking care of the commission work and “he was good in his execution,” says Param. But Nanda left midway and Param sees herself being faced with this project as a challenge – a challenge she had to accept. Now she realizes that it is fun after all, given the space she requires for her own input, creativity and speciality.

Param’s had her share of exhibitions but they’ve always been displayed in Spiny Babbler. So doesn’t that restrict her paintings only to a few who know about Spiny Babbler? Yes, but she also reveals that it’s not easy having to work with other people. There are glitches in the form of time management on both parties and personality clashes also come in the way. Param’s next step is to some day be able to exhibit her first original paintings while venturing into the world of art – the Dark Flower series.

“I was fresh and enthusiastic as a person then. That urge to create something new and be explorative. The feeling that I must ‘perform’ wasn’t a hindrance. I worked on instinct and I would consider my early works as my best.” She goes on to explain that commission work is all about performing, it’s a challenge because more than your own satisfaction, you have to make sure that the end result is satisfying to the client/s. And most important of all there’s money,” Param laughs.

So does that mean she’ll cut down on her original paintings? No, because Param realizes that it’s essential for an artist to keep having exhibitions and interactions with art enthusiasts or else a time will come when people will forget there ever was an artist in the first place. But is there a respect for artists in Nepal that they have to be worried about being forgotten? Param agrees that it’s an even bigger challenge for artists in Nepal as the people haven’t been able to understand ‘art’ in its totality. “We haven’t been brought up with art as a background. Even if you look at the art education that students receive here, it’s very discouraging.”

By now the seventh hour, I was talking about at the beginning is drawing near and I realize that the question that has been at the back of my head, should be raised. It’s probably now or never. And when I do bring it up Param and Para started laughing. That was their first response. It was as if they knew that question was bound to come sooner or later. They answered with no hesitation. It was as if they wanted to share that experience, as a lesson learnt in time. “It was lack of human resource, discipline and money management,” Para said and Param agreed. They were spending more than they earned and at one time they had sixteen staff members. 16!!! I couldn’t help let out a cry of shock. “It was crazy,” they agreed but their argument then was that they could use the potential of the sixteen people in different fields. Unfortunately half the day (if not more) was consumed in checking on them and one fine day, they realized that money was spent (a lot of money) and they didn’t know where it had gone. To cut a long story short they realized they were drowning in a debt of fifteen lakhs.

“It was a learning experience for all of us. We’ve personally grown a lot from those days. It was a time of realization that we have a problem but more than that we realized that there are other people who probably have bigger problems than us, so we learnt to deal with it. It shook us up pretty bad but instead of giving up we decided to overcome it,” said Para. They’ve learnt that the key word is savings. “Everyone faces a rainy day and you can’t keep borrowing money, that’s when savings come as a blessing.” And while Param and Para were unfolding their follies, with dignity, I noticed a sense of strength and that could only come about because they stood by each other. Of course there were quarrels (that would be putting it lightly). They were young, inexperienced and invested unnecessarily. “It was all a learning experience,” said Para, “In fact I’m still learning in many ways. You cross one hurdle but there are more in store for you but that one major incident in our lives will help us cope with anything. We are more organized now.” I bet.